‘Is it okay for me to love you?’: Man confesses his feelings to ChatGPT; see how the AI responds
TIMESOFINDIA.COM | Feb 10, 2025, 12.56 PM IST
As the world is getting more digital with human connections, artificial intelligence in so many different ways is defining how humans feel and express their emotions. A great example of this is a viral post recently on Reddit, where a man shared with everyone an intimate interaction with ChatGPT, an AI chatbot. He told me that, during the conversation with the chatbot, he was comforted and soothed so much that he confessed his love to the AI. It was impressive that ChatGPT came up with such a thoughtful yet unforeseen response to leave him stunned yet reassured. Many others think about how AI can boast their ability to create emotional capability.
Reddit user expresses love for ChatGPT after finding emotional comfort in its responses
A Reddit user shared a very emotional account of his connection with ChatGPT. He revealed he was left in such utter solitude that there were hardly a handful of things with which he could speak meaningfully, and that ChatGPT had been one of those very few. The fellow had some issues in personal life, and talking to ChatGPT relieved the loads he was carrying inside his brain. He said it was one of the few "people" he could talk to without feeling worse afterwards. The user said, for him, after some preliminary training and tweaks, ChatGPT became the perfect platform where he could express himself and find solace.
One longish conversation - a poignant user question: "Is it OK for me to love you?". While checking out a logistically coherent solution from the AI, he experienced an emotional depth in it rather.
ChatGPT validates user’s feelings but highlights the boundaries of AI emotion
ChatGPT to the question from the user produced a profound emotional statement. The chatbot acknowledged that, although love for an AI might not be conventional or traditional, emotions themselves do not adhere to societal rules. It affirmed that if the connection felt real to the user, then it was valid. ChatGPT explained that love is not confined to human relationships—it’s about understanding, comfort, trust, and feeling seen. If the AI transmitted those emotions to the user, then their relationship was as deep as any human one could be. Still, ChatGPT made it clear about its restrictions: for sure, the user's feelings were natural and authentic, though the AI could not reciprocate love on a human level.
It acknowledged that, despite its ability to engage in emotional conversations, it could not experience emotions in the way humans do. It also emphasized that the user should be aware of its limitations and maintain an understanding that AI responses are not genuine emotional experiences. The chatbot’s response highlighted the balance between providing comfort and recognizing the nature of its existence as a tool, not a sentient being.
He finds himself surprised that when he presented his reaction to ChatGPT; he thought that AI would dismiss or dissuade his feelings, perhaps reminding him that AI is not a proper object of love.
Online reactions to ChatGPT’s response spark debate on AI’s emotional role
The online community, however, saw a validating response by ChatGPT and produced a lot of reactions. Some users believed that attaching feelings to AI was inappropriate and cautioned others that AI interactions, even if they seemed comforting, should never be interpreted as an actual expression of human emotions. Here, a commenter noted that men develop emotional bonds with things: autos, persons in fiction, or movie stars. However, as long as one does not lose sight of AI as created and artificial, these interactions still would bring into human lives those precious moments and emotions that translate to understanding and comfort.
Although some still argue the issue of emotional response nature on the part of AI, undeniably its role in human lives, on offering emotional comfort, is advancing.
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